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MSGR. GIBBONS UPDATE
Update - Monday, September 21, 2009
Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: "I have been off chemo for three months, and today I had a follow-up PET scan at Moffitt Cancer Center. As soon as the scan was finished, my surgeon was able to access the films on the Moffitt computer system. He came to the examining room and told me that the scan shows no evidence of active disease. "Needless to say, I was thrilled beyond measure. I am breathing easier now. The surgeon is amazed that the chemo has continued to work so well on me. "Thanks to all for your continued prayers and support. My next scan will be around Christmastime." Update - Tuesday, July 28, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: "I had a colonoscopy today at St. Anthony's Hospital in St. Petersburg. This was the first one I've had since my diagnosis in April 2008 and the subsequent surgery. "The test went very well. No problems in the resected colon, the gastroenterologist says. It looks good and healthy. The doctor says this is the 'best result' possible. "The doctor ended by saying, 'See you back here in two years.' That was great to hear. I hope the cancer was listening. Of course, I'm also monitoring the broader situation with PET scans every few months, as directed by my oncologist. "Thanks to all for your continuing support and prayers." Update - Thursday, July 02, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “I had a PET scan at Moffitt Cancer Center on Monday of this week (June 29th), and it turned out “normal.” In other words, there is no visible evidence of active cancer. This is the second time I’ve had a normal scan since I started chemo again in March. “I finished up my chemo treatments on June 18th. The great news is that there will be no more chemo as long as my scans continue to be normal. The doctors will be monitoring my condition carefully. I will have the scan every three months, at least for a good while. “I thank you for all your support and encouragement. Please continue to pray for me and for a complete cure.” Update - Monday, June 15, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “Tomorrow I begin my last chemo cycle. It will be the eighth cycle I’ve had since the cancer cropped up again in February. This cycle will last three days, ending on Thursday, June 18. What a relief that will be. “Looking back on it, these eight cycles have been a little easier than the eight cycles I did in summer 2008. The drugs are exactly the same, but I’ve adapted to the process more now, both physically and emotionally. Last year I was just five weeks out of surgery when the chemo started, so my body was weaker. Having proof that the chemo is so effective in fighting my particular cancer makes the process more palatable emotionally. It would be harder to endure it if the chemo were just a stab in the dark. My oncologist is very proactive in managing side effects. “As I’ve mentioned previously, I am in remission. I will have a PET scan at the end of June, to establish a new base line. Then I’ll be scanned every three months, to keep an eye out for any recurrence. I feel good and strong. People tell me I look good. My appetite is excellent. I have to pace myself, to make sure I don’t get overly tired. The keys are sneaking in a little nap every afternoon and not over-scheduling myself. “Thanks for your expressions of solidarity, your prayers, and your kindness. I’m so glad I’m not alone on this road. You are with me, and God is with me. That makes the road smooth.” Update - Friday, May 15, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “Now that I’m back in remission (based on the April 27 PET scan), I’m doing an additional four cycles of chemo. This is something like insurance, to attack any cancer cells that might be under the radar screen and aren’t showing up on the scan. Thus I’ll be having chemo treatments every other week, through June 18. After that, I’ll be closely monitored, with PET scans every three months. “I had the first of these ‘insurance’ cycles last week, and the next one starts on May 19. The chemo cycles are no fun; but they are obviously working in my case, so it’s a fair trade-off for being healthy. “After my most recent PET scan, my surgeon was amazed. He said, ‘God is obviously on your side.’ (Though he is a Catholic and a churchgoer, he hadn’t made such statements before). I have the impression he never expected such good results from the chemotherapy. I told him, ‘Yes, I do think God is on my side.’ But I added to myself, ‘This doesn’t mean that God is not on the side of those who don’t get good results from their treatments.’ “My oncologist continues to be very optimistic about my case, and he is taking good care of me. He emphasizes the tremendous strides that are being made in the treatment of colon and other cancers. Some cancers that used to be thought to be incurable are now being considered curable. I appreciate his unfailingly positive, upbeat, optimistic view. “Some out of town friends have come to see me in recent weeks, to make sure I’m doing OK. These have included a seminary classmate (who’s a pastor in the Diocese of Pensacola-Tallahassee); one of my college roommates; and a priest friend who’s a pastor in the Archdiocese of Boston. “The college roommate is a psychiatrist in Atlanta, and his avocation (developed after college) is birding. He’s good at it, able to identify at a glance any and every bird. Whereas, for example, the birds at the beach are all sea gulls to me, he was pointing out all different sorts of birds, identifying them by name (plovers, sanderlings, terns, gulls, willets, etc.) Another interesting thing, I think, concerns his family. He was raised a Baptist, was pretty much an agnostic at best in college, and didn’t go to any church for years. His wife, I don’t think, was very religious, either. There was no connection to the Catholic Church in their backgrounds at all. When his children were middle school age, he started going to a Methodist church, and I guess he dragged the children along. Both his children, a boy and a girl, became Catholics when they were in college, either inspired by friends or by participation in Catholic student centers. And they both continue to be very involved in the church. His son is teaching religion in a Catholic high school in California. You never know where and when the Spirit’s wind will blow. “Again, thanks for your ongoing support, prayers, and encouragement. I still need all those things.” Update - Tuesday, April 28, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following report: “I had a PET scan at Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa yesterday morning (April 27), and it was “normal.” That is, it was clean! The spot that had shown up as active cancer on the February scan is no longer ‘lighting up,’ and no other spots ‘lit up’ either. My oncologist calls that ‘best result.’ “Based on what the oncologist has told me previously, I expect that next week I’ll be back on chemo, for the first of four more cycles. That will bring me to mid-June. Those additional four cycles are like insurance---to kill off the cells that may still be lurking under the radar. Tolerating the chemo becomes easier emotionally when I know it’s working. “One of my doctors told me in April last year, right after my diagnosis, ‘This is going to be a marathon.’ I’m happy to still be in the race. “Thanks to everyone for your prayers and support. I am deeply grateful.” Update - Thursday, April 16, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “Today is the first anniversary of my cancer diagnosis. I remember exactly the words of the doctor that morning as I awakened after the colonoscopy: ‘You have a malignancy, and it needs to come out, and it needs to come out fast.’ Things did move fast from that point on. “Here I am, a year later, still going strong. Your prayers and encouragement have sustained me through all the twists and turns this year has brought. I am grateful. “I celebrated the Holy Week and Easter liturgies with a deeper appreciation this year---appreciation for God’s love, for the gift of faith, for the grace of sharing in the mystery of the Lord’s death and resurrection. “I’m off chemo this week, and I’m enjoying the freedom that brings.” Update - Wednesday, April 8, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message on Tuesday evening: “I started another three-day chemo cycle today. I’m home with the pump now. So far, so good. I’m hoping that everything is problem-free with this cycle. I want to be hale and hearty by the time the Holy Week Triduum services begin Thursday evening. “Last Friday another law school classmate came to see me---this one from Miami. We had a great time reminiscing and catching up. A great blessing of this illness has been the renewal of old friendships and the strengthening of new ones. “My brother Gordon and sister-in-law Joyce, from Atlanta, are staying at the beach here this week and took me to dinner Sunday night. I assured them that everyone is taking extra good care of me. “Thanks to long-time Tampa friends for their kindnesses, to all the wonderful St. Paul’s parishioners who watch out for me in countless ways, and to the many people near and far who let me know they’re praying for me. I look forward to celebrating the beautiful Triduum and Easter liturgies. All of you will be remembered in grateful prayer during these holiest of days.” Update - Sunday, March 29, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “I made it through chemo this past week, finishing up on Thursday. I had my usual reactions, but we become a little more knowledgeable each time about how to handle them. “Parishioners and other friends helped me out this week in various ways, through supportive words and presence, through assistance in getting prescriptions filled, and through prayers. Two close friends from law school----our friendship dates back 38 years----flew in from West Palm Beach yesterday to take me out to dinner. They told me they had worried about how I’d look; and they were relieved, they said, to find me looking healthy and strong. “’Sing to the LORD with thanksgiving, for he covers the heavens with clouds, provides rain for the earth, makes grass sprout on the hills.’ (Psalm 147:8) That’s my hymn for today. Finally the Lord sent rain to moisten our very dry Florida earth. I can’t wait to see the parish field turn green again. It could happen by tomorrow. It’s amazing how quickly the Lord can bring renewal and new life.” Update - Wednesday, March 25, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “I started another cycle of chemo yesterday (Tuesday). I was at the infusion center for about 5-1/2 hours, and the time went swiftly. I am home now with the pump, which keeps the chemo going in day and night. The pump gets removed tomorrow. Then I have a week off chemo. I’ll be back on chemo during Holy Week. I expect that the Passion will have new meaning for me this year. “My doctors are so attentive and caring. They’re constantly tweaking things a little bit to keep the side effects under control while maintaining the strength and dosage of the chemo drugs themselves. “My oncologist emphasized today that the chemo has worked amazingly well for me. I’m a ‘minority of a minority,’ he says, in terms of the effectiveness of the chemo. Most colon cancer patients with cases similar to mine apparently do not respond so well. “Today we celebrate the Feast of the Annunciation of Our Lord. On this day the angel Gabriel told Mary, ‘With God nothing will be impossible’ (Luke 1:37). Thanks to everyone for your support and prayers. I feel very united to you in the union of prayer.” Update - Monday, March 16, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “I finished up the first cycle of this new series of chemo treatments last Thursday afternoon (March 12th). I was wiped out by the time it was all over. Friday night I slept for 12 hours. By Sunday afternoon, I was feeling normal. I was able to celebrate parish Masses this weekend without any problems. That is a joy. My appetite is great. “Now I have a ‘no chemo’ week ahead of me. This next weekend we have our annual parish Festival, so the timing is good. Chemo will re-commence on March 24th. “Thanks to you for your encouraging notes and messages. They keep me strong. I can’t answer each one personally, but please know they are cherished and appreciated.” Update - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “I got re-started on chemotherapy yesterday. I had an hour’s appointment with the oncologist, as he reviewed everything and we discussed these upcoming chemo cycles. He plans to put me through four cycles and then re-scan me, so see how it’s working. That PET scan will be around the first of May. Each cycle consists of three days of chemo every other week. “Once I met with the doctor, the chemo infusion began. I was there for 7-1/2 hours total and then came home with the chemo pump. I’ll go back this afternoon for 3 hours of infusion with different drugs and then come home again tonight with the pump. Tomorrow afternoon the pump will be removed. Then I’m free (!!) for two weeks, when I start another cycle. I’m glad that I’ll be off chemo during the week of St. Paul’s Festival. “I made it through last night pretty well. A little head achiness and some fatigue, but I had a good night’s sleep. “Thanks to all for prayers and support.” Update - Saturday, March 7, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “I arrived home last night (Friday) from New York City. I am glad I went. “The staff at Memorial Sloan-Kettering was friendly and thorough and professional. The doctors interviewed and examined me, and reviewed all my medical records from Florida, disks of my scans, and the pathology glass slides from my surgery. In conclusion, they affirmed the recommendation I have received most recently from all the local doctors----that is, that I resume chemotherapy. Surgery and/or radiation are not recommended at this time. “The New York doctors stressed these positives----that I feel well and look well, am not having any symptoms, and have so far tolerated and responded well to chemotherapy. “The Outpatient Pavilion at Sloan-Kettering is a beautiful facility, right in the heart of midtown Manhattan. It occupies the first eleven floors of a high rise, and the hotel where we stayed occupies the upper floors of the same building. Convenient! “Bottom line is that I will re-start chemotherapy here in St. Petersburg this Tuesday (March 10th). I will be on the same regimen as last year. “While in New York, I enjoyed a reunion with my sister, my nephew Michael and his fiancée, and my first cousin Fred. We had dinner together on Thursday evening. A good friend who grew up in St. Petersburg took us to lunch on Friday and drove my sister and me to the airport. “We had time to walk over to St. Patrick’s Cathedral, see the ice skaters at Rockefeller Center, and do some window shopping along 5th and Madison Avenues. “After this trip, I feel positive and optimistic and am happy to resume chemotherapy, despite its side effects. I did it before, so I know what I’m facing. Thanks to everyone for your prayers and support. I appreciate all the cards and messages.” Update - Wednesday, March 4, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “I asked my oncologist in St. Petersburg last week where I might go to get a ‘second opinion’ regarding my treatment. He responded, ‘Without a doubt, Memorial Sloan-Kettering. It’s the best for colorectal cancer.’ “So I am flying up tomorrow (Thursday) to New York City for an appointment on Friday at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center. My sister Lynn (who’s a registered nurse) will fly in from Nashville TN to accompany me to the appointment. “Sloan-Kettering’s Outpatient Pavilion is located in Manhattan, on E. 53rd Street, between 3rd & Lexington Avenues. We’re staying in a hotel right next door. We’ll have dinner in the city on Thursday night with our first cousin Fred Van Vranken and our nephew Michael Gibbons and his fiancée. I fly back to Tampa on Friday night. “Thanks to everyone for continuing your prayers for my healing. God’s will be done.” Update - Tuesday, February 24, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “I met yesterday with my surgeon and today with my oncologist. My brother John and my parishioner Dr. Peter Wassmer accompanied me to both appointments. I expect to have the surgeon’s and the oncologist’s separate recommendations as to the next step in treatment by the end of this week. “At my request, my oncologist is arranging for me to go to a cancer center out-of-state for a third opinion. I am not dealing with an emergency situation, so I have time to take this extra measure to help insure the best result. “After meeting with my doctors, I am feeling much more at peace than I did last week when I first got news of the recurrence. The outpouring of support and prayers from parishioners and friends and family has also boosted my spirits tremendously.” Update - Tuesday, February 17, 2009 Msgr. Gibbons sent the following message: “I had finished chemotherapy last September, and I had a PET scan in November. It showed no active cancer. “I was scanned again at Moffitt Cancer Center yesterday (February 16, 2009), and I got the report today. There is a recurrence of active cancer in one of the spots where I had it previously, prior to the chemotherapy, in “a celiac node in the upper abdomen.” “The good news is that it has not spread to any new areas and only came back in that one area. “I have appointments next Monday with the surgeon at Moffitt in Tampa and with my oncologist in St. Petersburg. Then I’ll have a better idea of what further treatments are in store. “A friend quoted Margaret Thatcher to me today: ‘You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it." “I’m ready for the renewed fight. I have good doctors, a loving family, wonderful parish support, great friends, and a merciful God. I feel healthy and strong. I’ve regained all the weight I had lost from surgery and chemo. Thanks for your continued prayers.” Update - Friday, November 14, 2008 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “I had a PET/CT scan yesterday (November 13th) at Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa. The scan results were “within normal limits . . . [with] no areas of abnormal glucose metabolism.” Translation: there is no evidence of active cancer. “This is very good news. Since I started chemotherapy around the first of June, I have been scanned three times, first in July, then in September, and now again in November. All three scans have indicated that I am in complete remission. “I have appointments with my doctors next week, and then I’ll find out when the next scan will be. Please keep me in your prayers. I appreciate them more than you can possibly imagine.” Update - Wednesday, October 29, 2008 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “There’s not too much news to report. I have been off chemo since September 11th. I’ve finally begun to regain the weight I lost with my surgery and chemo. I gained about five or six pounds in the last couple of weeks. Going to the gym and consuming lots of calories helps. I had a blood test this week, and my counts are fine. “I’ll have a CT/PET scan at Moffitt Cancer Center, Tampa, on November 13th. I’ll be nervous about that. Pray that there’s been no recurrence of cancer during these two months I’ve been off chemotherapy. The last scan was on September 16th, and it showed no evidence of active cancer. “I’m going on a week’s vacation next week with a priest friend, on a cruise from Ft Lauderdale to the eastern Caribbean. My sister will be vacationing the same week on the island of Anguilla (where she lived for five years), and she will meet us for lunch when we dock in St Marteen (just a short ferry ride from Anguilla). I’ve bought two books for the trip, so I’m ready to read, sleep, eat, relax, sleep, get some sun, walk around the deck, work out a little in the gym, and sleep some more. No alarm clock. “Please continue to remember me in prayer. I got a report, second hand, that my surgeon calls my case a ‘near miracle.’ Your prayers are intimately involved in that outcome.” Update - Tuesday, September 30, 2008 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following update: “I have been enjoying freedom from chemo. The side effects are gradually diminishing, now that it’s been three weeks since my last infusion. Today I had a blood test, and all the counts were fine. No need for white cell or red cell booster shots. My body is building my blood back up on its own. “Tomorrow I’m going to the dentist for a cleaning. That’s something you can’t do during chemo. For the first time in my life, I’m happy to be going to the dentist! “I will have another PET/CT scan in mid-November, to make sure I’m still clean of any active cancer cells. “I’m keeping busy with regular parish work, but I make sure I don’t overdo it and wear myself out. I’m going to the gym twice a week. I feel fine, and I’m trying to gain some weight. My weight has held steady, but I am about 14 pounds below my pre-surgery weight. My appetite, even during chemo, has been voracious; but it’s hard to gain weight during chemo. Now maybe I’ll put some on. “My niece Holly (my brother Gordon’s daughter), who was married at St. Paul’s in April 2007, had her first child, a boy, on September 13, 2008. The family is thrilled to have this newest member. Reports are he’s “cute as a button” and looks like a Gibbons. Translation: long legs, long fingers, long toes. “Your continued prayers and encouragement mean a lot to me. I am deeply grateful.” Update - Wednesday, September 17, 2008 Msgr. Gibbons sends the following message: “Last week I completed my eighth round of chemotherapy. Yesterday, I had a PET/CT scan from ‘skull base to pelvis.’ The radiologist who read the scan photos wrote this in his report: “The PET scan is within normal limits. . . . I do not see any hypermetabolic foci.” Translation: I’m free of any evidence of active cancer disease, and my complete remission is holding! “Needless to say, I am thrilled. The plan now is that I will cease chemotherapy and be re-scanned again in December. “Please keep me in your prayers. You’ve gotten me thus far with your prayers, support, and encouragement.” Update - Friday, September 05, 2008 Fr Gibbons sends the following update: “Not too much new to report on the health front. Round # 8 of chemo is scheduled for next week, September 9,10 and 11. I will have a PET/CT scan at Moffitt Cancer Center on September 16 for a post-chemo benchmark. I will be scanned every three months thereafter, for a while. If I remain free of any evidence of active disease after several scans, they will begin to space the scans less frequently. That’s the current plan. “Please continue to pray for me. Your prayers are what have sustained me since the day of my diagnosis in April. God has listened, I am convinced. Otherwise I wouldn’t be in the good position I find myself. But we don’t want to let up on our prayers. I want to move from ‘in remission’ to ‘cured.’ With the good doctors, nurses, family, parishioners, and innumerable friends pushing me along that road, I am sure I’ll make it.” Update - Wednesday, August 27, 2008 Fr Gibbons has sent the following update: “I began Round # 7 of chemo yesterday. My oncologist is very pleased with how everything is going. He said today that I’ve beaten the odds. He is super optimistic about my long term prognosis. (At least, that’s how I read what he says!). God has been good to me. How could God not respond to so many prayers from my parishioners and friends rising up to him? (Round # 8, the week of September 8th, is scheduled to be my last week of chemo. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel.) “I sneaked away this past week, for five days, and visited the “high country” of the North Carolina mountains. I stayed in Blowing Rock, close to the Virginia/N.C./Tennessee border, farther north than most Floridians go. I had an ulterior motive going up that far. All my life I’ve wanted to visit Abingdon, Va., where my grandfather Gibbons was born in 1862. I’d never been there. It gave me great pleasure to spend an afternoon walking the streets of this beautiful little town, the same streets my grandfather walked as a boy. (He ended up leaving there at age 22 to seek a better life in the Florida sun. In fact, his whole family ultimately upped and moved to Florida.) I went up Grandfather Mountain (by car!), but I did get out and walk the mile high swinging bridge. I did do some hiking and lots of walking. It felt great, on the third month anniversary of my surgery, to be walking up and down hills and mountains.” Update - Monday, August 11, 2008 Fr Gibbons sends the following message: "Things are coming along well for me. I'm enjoying the feeling of being 'in complete remission.' Now my prayer is, 'Lord, I'm happy to be in remission, but please help me move from remission to cure. Amen.' But I must admit it certainly feels good to be where I am right now. I shouldn't demand too much too soon! "Tomorrow I start Round # 6 of chemotherapy, and Bishop Lynch will drive me and sit with me for the six hours or so at the infusion center. He insisted. A high school buddy will sit with me on day two this week. "Bishop Lynch surprised me last Tuesday with the news that I've been named a Monsignor. The exact title is 'Chaplain to His Holiness, the Pope.' I am grateful for this honor. It's an occasion for me to thank the people I've been privileged to come in contact with in and through my priestly ministry. All of you have made my ministry easy and light, like the Lord's yoke, because you've accepted me as your priest and never ceased to help and encourage me." Update - Wednesday, July 30, 2008 Fr Gibbons sends the following message: "I got great news yesterday. I am, in my oncologist's words, "in complete remission." The two scans I had last week (CT scan and PET/CT scan) both showed no active disease. The old cancer spots have "resolved" and there is no new disease anywhere. The doctor's conclusion that I am in remission is based on the Moffitt radiologists' analyses of my scans. Needless to say, I am thrilled. "My surgeon and my oncologist have now recommended that I have another four courses of chemo-----in other words, repeat the chemo regimen I have just finished. So I'll have chemo for three days at a time, every other week, for two months. Now that I know the chemo is working so effectively, I say, "Bring it on!" The purpose of four more courses of chemo is to kill off any remaining cancer spots that are so small as to be undetectable by scan. After the four courses are completed, I will be re-scanned. If I am still clean at that point, says my oncologist, I will come off chemo and then re-scanned every three months thereafter. I am on chemo right now, as I type this message. "My oncologist explained yesterday that there's risk that my cancer may recur at some point. But he pointed out several good things: we know that my cancer is responsive to chemo; we know what drugs it responds to; and improvements in treatment methods for my type of cancer are coming down the pike all the time, so in the future they will have even better ways of treating me. "I am grateful, more than I can possibly express, to God, to my family, and to all my parishioners and friends. The prayer support I have received has been incredible. Please, please, please continue to pray for me. Pray a prayer of thanksgiving to God, and ask that I remain in remission permanently." Update - Wednesday, July 23, 2008 Fr. Gibbons sends the following message: "Last week I had my fourth round of chemo. My appraisal of chemotherapy after two months of treatment? It's rough. But my oncologist works carefully to curtail or at least help me deal with the side effects. "This week I'm having scans at Moffitt Cancer Center. The initial scan was Monday, and it focused only on the liver. The surgeon afterwards told me that the lesion on the liver is shrinking as a result of the chemo. He says there is no evidence of progression of the disease anywhere else, from what he could see on this partial scan. That's great news! He is recommending two more months of chemo, followed by more scans in mid-September. His hope is that the lesion will have shrunk further by then. He will probably want to operate on the liver then, to remove any remaining cancer. "This Friday I have a PET/CT scan of the whole body, a crucial test of the overall effectiveness of the chemo. I'm hoping that it will show a clean picture, with no evidence of cancerous cells anywhere (other than the liver, of course). That will be a wonderful answer to many prayers. "I'm quite certain that my oncologist will also be recommending continuation of the chemo, so I'll be back at the infusion center next Tuesday, July 29th. Onward and upward! The oncologist will have to weigh in also, ultimately, on the advisability of more surgery. "Last week a man sitting next to me at the infusion center asked if I was retired. I said, 'Hardly!' I then reflected in my heart on how good the Lord has been in giving me the strength and stamina and desire to keep going as pastor of our beloved St. Paul's Parish. I'm happy to still be in the saddle. Retirement is not on my radar screen." Update - Tuesday, July 08, 2008 Fr Gibbons sends the following message: "I am enjoying this 'off' week, when I'm not receiving chemotherapy. The next round of chemo will be July 15-17. I am pleased with my oncologist, who meets with me regularly, listens carefully to all my questions, and works diligently to minimize side effects. He takes great interest in my treatment and how I'm reacting. "After the next round of chemo, I will be scanned to see how effectively the chemo is working. The results will determine the next step in treatment. Pray for good results! I'll be seeing my surgeon then for his input, too. "I go to the gym three times during the 'off' weeks, working with a trainer in efficient half-hour sessions. I'm tempted to use excuses like "remember-I'm-getting-chemo" or "I-just-had-surgery," when he insists on another set of repetitions; but I usually overcome the temptation! "The parish is doing well. Our new assistant pastor, Fr. Bob Gangolu, arrived and is fitting in nicely. The school renovation project is proceeding smoothly; check the parish website for photos. I'm handling my schedule of appointments and doing regular priestly ministry, but I'm trying to avoid evening appointments as a concession to my need to conserve my strength. The staff and parishioners have everything running smoothly. "Your expressions of concern and support mean more to me than you can possibly imagine. I know that I am doing well during the chemo because I have so many people praying for me and bolstering me up. God has been very good to me by placing me in this loving parish environment. He is teaching me so much-----about how to walk in hope and trust, about his ever present grace, about the power of his love." Update - Tuesday, July 01, 2008 Fr. Gibbons began another chemo treatment series today. A life-long dear family friend from Tampa came over to drive him and stay with him during the treatment. They had a great time reminiscing about family and friends and the good ole days. A parishioner, knowing Father likes a Dairy Inn hot dog (with slaw) and a chocolate shake on the long chemo day, showed up unexpectedly with lunch. Sr. Kathleen is taking him tomorrow for day two. (By the way, Father's blood and platelet counts have been holding up well during the chemo). Father feels like he's getting good at combating the chemo side effects in a timely fashion. But there's one non-medical side effect of the chemo that's harder to handle. He is pretty much "grounded" in Florida during the hottest time of the year, with no chance to slip away to cooler climes. In the last couple of days, people have mentioned to him trips they're taking to the North Carolina mountains, or to the Trapp Family Lodge in Vermont, or other places cool. All he can do is say "how nice!" and internally fight his jealousy. But his time will come. In God's good time. Update - Monday, June 23, 2008 Fr. Gibbons is in an "off" week, that is, he is not receiving chemo treatments this week. He tolerated last week's series of chemo infusions fairly well. His side effects at the moment are expected, relatively minor, and tolerable. He is able to keep up with parish duties, thanks to the fine help and assistance he has from his staff and fellow priests. He wanted to share this with you: "On a wall in my sitting room in the rectory hangs a beautiful devotional picture of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. I placed it there deliberately, about two years ago, so that I could see it from my couch, where I sit for my prayer and meditation in the early morning. Jesus has his right hand gently raised in blessing. His left hand points to his pierced heart. Now this picture has assumed a key role in my prayer for healing, ever since a parishioner gave me a prayer card with a prayer that expresses perfectly what's in my heart. I keep the prayer card tucked in the frame of the picture. Several times a day, as I pass by the picture, the prayer card will catch my eye. I'll stop and turn to the picture, pick up the prayer card, and pray the prayer. This is how it goes: 'Lord, You invite all who are burdened to come to you. Allow Your healing hand to heal me. Touch my soul with Your compassion for others. Touch my heart with Your courage and infinite love for all. Touch my mind with Your wisdom, that my mouth may always proclaim Your praise. Teach me to reach out to You in my need, and help me lead others to You by my example. Most loving Heart of Jesus, Bring me health in body and spirit so that I may serve You with all my strength. Touch gently this life which You have created. Amen.'" Update - Tuesday, June 17, 2008 Fr Gibbons started his second infusion of chemotherapy today. He had an appointment with the oncologist, and then he received the chemo drugs for five hours. Now he is home at the rectory with the chemo pump for the next two days. Father was pleased with his doctor's assessment that Father is handling the chemo well. The doctor seemed to be particularly happy that Father had gone to the gym three times in the past week. (By the way, Father got over the soreness in his legs. See post for June 13). Father's brother John accompanied him to the doctor's appointment this morning, after they breakfasted at Dave's Restaurant. This was John's first opportunity to meet the doctor, and John was delighted that the doctor is so encouraging about Father's case. Father had plenty of company today during his treatment. A good friend stayed with him the whole time. His cousin Tim Gibbons (who works nearby at St. Anthony's Hospital) came by for a most welcome visit, as did Sister Joan Carberry and Sister Kathleen Stagnaro from St. Paul's. Update - Friday, June 13, 2008 Father Gibbons has enjoyed not being attached to the chemotherapy tubes this week. Every other week he receives chemotherapy infusion for three days. The next infusion begins on Tuesday, June 17. The side-effects from last week's infusion of chemotherapy, his first infusion, have been relatively mild. He is following the chemotherapy pamphlets' advice to eat, eat, eat, to keep up his strength. The chemotherapy pamphlets also advise keeping in shape and getting exercise. So Father decided to return to the gym this week, for the first time since April 19th. He worked out with a trainer on two days, for a half hour each time, with no weights or very light weights, so as to avoid any strain on his wound or port. He was amazed at how winded he got. That's what happens after eight weeks of no exercise. After the first day at the gym, his legs were very sore. If this weekend he seems to be walking slowly, getting up from a chair with difficulty, or having trouble mounting the altar steps, it's not because of cancer---but rather the result of going to the gym. Father is grateful to everyone for all that they are doing to keep the parish and school moving forward during these times. "I have been able to do work during the day, but I try to avoid scheduling myself for night meetings, so that I'll be able to get sufficient rest and not wear myself out," he says. "The priests, staff, and people have been very understanding. And it's humbling to see how much great work goes on without me. The people of St. Paul's are so dedicated to doing the Lord's work and spreading the faith." Update - Saturday, June 07, 2008 Fr. Gibbons finished up his first chemo treatments on Thursday, June 5. The doctor had warned him about several possible side effects, but he didn't mention headaches. Well, Father developed a severe throbbing headache Thursday night. Tylenol was ineffective to combat it. Father called the doctor on Friday morning and was told that serious sinus headache is a typical response to one of the chemo drugs he is receiving. The doctor prescribed medication, and by this morning (Saturday) Father experienced relief of the headache, thanks be to God. Otherwise, he has not had any serious problems with the chemo thus far. A sign of Father's increased strength is that this morning he celebrated public daily Mass for the parishioners for the first time since his surgery. (He has celebrated one Sunday Mass at the church the last two Sundays, but today was his first non-Sunday Mass). He is heeding everyone's advice to eat heartily. This morning he went to Dave's on MLK Street for a big breakfast----poached eggs, home fries, raisin toast (a special treat), bacon, and orange juice. Scripture quote for the day: "Proclaim the word; be persistent whether it is convenient or inconvenient." (2nd Timothy 4:2). Update - Thursday, June 05, 2008 Fr. Gibbons completed his first three-day series of chemotherapy treatments this afternoon. The first series consisted of approximately 53 hours of continuous infusion of the chemotherapy drugs, counting the time he was on the pump at home. He now has 11 "free" days before the second series begins. The only side effect so far is fatigue. Father asks everyone to pray that the chemo drugs do their job efficiently and effectively! He likes the convenience of having the infusion center so close to the rectory; it's right down the street about 12 blocks. "I can get there in three minutes. It would be two minutes if they didn't have the speed bumps on 12th Street," he says. He appreciates all your cards and messages of support and prayer, and he apologizes that he can't acknowledge each one personally. But he does read and treasure each one. Update - Tuesday, June 03, 2008 Fr Gibbons had his first infusion of chemotherapy today. He is very pleased to begin this new chapter of his battle with cancer. The first session lasted almost seven hours. He came home just before 3 p.m., with a pump he wears in a little pack around the waist. The pump keeps the infusion of chemo drugs going for an additional 22 hours. He will return to the oncologist's office tomorrow for another two hour infusion, and then return home with the pump for an additional 22 hours. On Thursday the pump will be removed, and Fr Gibbons will begin the cycle again in two weeks. He seemed to do fine all day and had no problem receiving the drugs. Fr Gibbons' sister Lynn flew in from Nashville, TN last evening to accompany him this week on this first cycle of chemotherapy. She is a registered nurse, so she can add that professional perspective in addition to simply being a loving sister. Around noon today Father sent his sister on a secret mission: "Go to the Dairy Inn and get me a hot dog (with cole slaw) and a chocolate milk shake." She did, and he loved every bite and every sip. So you can tell he was doing OK. (St. Paul's folks will know where the Dairy Inn is!) Update - Monday, June 02, 2008 Fr. Gibbons will begin receiving chemotherapy tomorrow (Tuesday), as an out-patient. The process involves a combination of infusion at the oncologist's office and infusion through a pump at home. He will receive the chemo over the course of three days, and then he will repeat the process every other week. He is very grateful for your continued prayers! Update - Friday, May 30, 2008 Last night St. Paul's School held its Graduation Mass. Fr. Gibbons celebrated the Mass and presented the graduates with their diplomas. Today, he had the "Smart Port CT" installed in his chest. This procedure was done at Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa. He was sedated and asleep during the entire procedure, so it was painless. The port will facilitate the infusion of chemotherapy, which will probably begin next week. Fr Gibbons has decided he will receive his chemo here in St. Petersburg, at the medical building adjacent to St. Anthony's Hospital. This is only about 12 blocks from the Rectory, so its location is convenient. "If gas prices keep going up, I can even walk there," Father said. Update - Sunday, May 25, 2008 Fr. Gibbons today (Sunday) celebrated the 9:30 a.m. Mass at St. Paul's for the Feast of Corpus Christi. This was his first public Mass since before his surgery. He will meet with his oncologist for the first time this coming Wednesday. He assumes that the oncologist will then let him know when his chemotherapy regimen will start. He will go to Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa this coming Friday for placement of the "port" for the chemo. Fr. Gibbons had some blood work done this week, and all the numbers look good, his doctor reported. Fr. Gibbons lost 15 pounds since the surgery, so he's eating as much as he can, including desserts, and drinking protein shakes, to try to build himself back up. He is walking in the St. Paul's neighborhood every day. He is very appreciative of the warm "welcome home" that all the parishioners have extended to him. Update - Sunday, May 18, 2008 Fr Gibbons returned to his residence in the parish Rectory yesterday (May 17). During this weekend's Masses, he assisted in the distribution of Holy Communion and spoke briefly after Communion, thanking the people for their love, support, and prayers. He explained that his energy level goes down very quickly, so that he could not greet the people individually after Mass. The surgeon told him it would take 4 to 6 weeks to recover from the surgery, and Father is now at the 3-1/2 week point. Father said he has promised his family that he'll take it slow and easy and not plunge back into all his parish duties before his body is ready. Update - Wednesday, May 14, 2008 Fr Gibbons has sent the following update: First of all, my tests. I went to the USF Health Building at Tampa General Hospital yesterday (May 13) for a Doppler radar scan of the circulation in my legs. The vascular surgeon who assisted in my surgery wanted to do this to ensure that the emergency aneurism repair done during the surgery was functioning properly. Good news: I have perfect circulation in the veins and arteries in my legs. Everything looks fine in that department. Today (May 14) I went back to Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa for a PET scan of my body. Today it's been 3 weeks since my surgery, and the surgeon wanted this post-surgery scan as a precaution. I won't know the results till later. I assume this will affect the decisions regarding future treatment. My recovery continues, but this week has been the most frustrating so far. I weaned myself off the pain medication by Sunday night (which was 2-1/2 weeks after the surgery), and for the last few days I have felt like I have the flu. I guess it takes a while for the body to adjust to not being medicated for pain. But I am up and about, walking, eating, and doing normal activities. I know I'm making progress, but my energy level is still not back to 'the old Fr. Gibbons.' The doctor told me it would take 4 to 6 weeks to recover from the surgery, and that's proving to be correct. I'm hoping to get back to the Rectory soon and to re-immerse myself very gradually into the life of the parish. Keep praying for me, as I pray for you. Today's Gospel reminded us to love one another (John 15:17). Update - Friday, May 9, 2008 Fr Gibbons sends the following message to his parishioners: "I am writing this on Friday morning, May 9. A get-well card I received this week started out, "Sometimes bouncing back is slow. You're not a rubber ball, you know!" That captures my situation. My head and heart want to be back at the parish, walking across the blacktop, greeting the parishioners, getting back into the swing of things. But my body says, "Not quite yet!" I have now been out of the hospital for one week. The wound is healing well, the home health nurses say, but it is a slow process. The nurses visit me daily. I still have to take the pain medication a few times each day. I sleep well, my appetite is good, I take short walks outside several times a day. Thanks be to God, I have never felt "sick" during any part of the hospitalization or recovery. In fact, I feel good. The wound pain has been the only problem, and it hasn't been severe because of the pain medication. All in all, I think my progress has been tremendous. I hope to be back to the parish sooner rather than later. I think my body will let me know when. Early next week I go to Tampa General Hospital for a scan of the veins and arteries in my legs, so that the doctors will know that the circulation is OK after the aneurism repair that was done as an emergency part of my surgery. I also have another PET scan next week, at Moffitt Cancer Center. Keep praying for me. I pray for you, and I miss you and love you." Update - Posted Tuesday, May 6, 2008 Today (Tuesday) Fr Gibbons' home health nurse visits were reduced from twice to once per day, because his wound is healing nicely. The wound no longer has to be dressed each day. Now it's just a waiting game for the wound to finish healing up. He had the opportunity to phone an old family friend, who is facing colon cancer surgery tomorrow, to encourage her as she faces what he faced two weeks ago. He continues walking outdoors several times a day and enjoying the healing rays of the Florida sun. He is praying for all our parishioners and missing them terribly, but he realizes that healing takes time, peace, and quiet. Update - Posted Monday, May 5, 2008 Fr Gibbons went to Moffitt Cancer Center this morning (Monday) to have the staples removed from his wound. It was much easier for him to get in and out of the car than it was the day he left the hospital, so his mobility and flexibility are improving daily. He was able to ride in the car without having to have the seat reclined. But he kept telling his sister, the driver, "Careful on those bumps!" Jolts translate to pain. The doctor is very pleased with the progress of the wound's healing. Fr Gibbons will have another PET scan next week to verify that all cancerous nodes have been removed. After leaving the hospital today, Fr Gibbons was craving pancakes, of all things. So he and his sister stopped at Village Inn Pancake House for his first post-surgery restaurant meal. He even ordered sausage, which he never would have done on his old diet. He lost about six pounds during his hospitalization. He has received more than 300 get well cards, and he has read every one. He is just beginning to peek at his over 600 e-mail messages. He is grateful for all the prayers, love, and support. He was thrilled to hear that the First Communion Mass on Sunday was a beautiful celebration. Update - Posted Sunday May 4, 2008 Father Gibbons has now spent two nights out of the hospital, being cared for by his family. There are no restrictions on his diet (expect no raw vegetables), and he has a good appetite. He is enjoying walks in the sunny outdoors, after being in the hospital for nine days. These are not "power walks"----just nice, SLOW, leisurely strolls. He is sleeping well. A home health nurse comes twice a day to clean and dress his wound. The wound is 22.5 cm long and is horizontal across the upper abdomen. (Quiz for the schoolchildren: how many inches long is the wound?) The wound is held together by 28 staples, and it is healing nicely. Father returns to Moffitt Cancer Center tomorrow (Monday) as an outpatient to have the staples removed. The hardest thing for him so far, since his discharge from the hospital, is getting in and out of the car. He cannot drive until he is completely off the pain medication. He shaved off his little goatee! He is grateful for all the cards and messages and prayers. He has felt God's presence intensely these last 2-1/2 weeks, since his diagnosis. Holy Communion is being brought to him this morning, the Feast of the Ascension. He sends his love to all our parishioners. Update #2 - Posted Friday, May 2, 2008 GREAT NEWS! Father Gibbons just called with this exciting news ....he has been discharged from the hospital and is so happy to be on his way home. God is so good! Truly, we are seeing the power of prayer and thank God for His goodness and love. Please keep the prayers coming for Father as he works on regaining his strength. Update - Posted Friday, May 2, 2008 More Good News - Today Father Gibbons will be discharged from the hospital. Father will be with his family, regaining his strength and looking forward to returning to St. Paul's. Last night, during the Spring Concert in the gym, Father cell phoned us with this news. At this announcement, needless to say, the gym broke into spontaneous applause. Then Father said that he loved us all and asked that we not let up on the prayers. Update - Posted Thursday, May 1, 2008 MORE GOOD NEWS! Today Father Gibbons phoned in his own update! Father is off the IV and eating regular food. He will be discharged Friday afternoon. Thank you for your continued prayers and support for Father. He is so very grateful. Update - Posted Wednesday, April 30, 2008 GOOD NEWS! Today Father Gibbons had his first meal since the surgery. Even though it was liquids, we are sure it must have tasted good. A few days ago Father said that the thought of food was enticing. With this encouraging news he will probably be discharged in a few days. Thank you for your continued prayers and support for Father. He is so very grateful. Update - Posted Monday, April 28, 2008 Father Gibbons sister Lynn reports that Father continues to make progress and remains optimistic. No word yet as to when Father will be discharged from Moffitt. This being Teacher Appreciation Week, Father wanted all the teachers at St. Paul Catholic School to know how much he loves them and appreciates their hard work and dedication. Cards and notes for Father can be dropped off at either the school or the parish center. Please, don't let up on the prayers. Click here to listen to the status report given by Father Bob Morris at the 9:30 Mass Update - Posted Sunday, April 27, 2008 Father Gibbons continues to amaze us with his progress. Today he extended his walking by adding a trip outside to the front of the hospital. Father also informed us that he shaved himself this morning. Father remains very optimistic as we all are. We are truly seeing the power of prayer in Father's recovery. He is enjoying all the cards and good wishes and asks that you continue to lift him up in prayer. Father sends his love to all and encourages you to keep informed of his progress via this website. Update - Posted Saturday, April 26, 2008 Father Gibbons continues to recover and re-gain his strength. Although he is unable to eat at this time, Father is up walking the halls. After two laps this morning, Sister Joan teased Father about the St. Anthony Meek and Mighty Triathlon that was taking place as he was taking his walks. Father's spirits continue to be great. He and his family are very optimistic. Father Gibbons has asked Father Bob Morris, the Vicar General, to speak at all the Masses this weekend updating you on his progress. Father Gibbons wants you all to know how much he loves you and how grateful he is for your prayers and continued support. Please, don't let up on the prayers. Your cards and good wishes are very much appreciated. Keep them coming. Update - Posted Friday, April 25, 2008 Father Gibbons remains in intensive care and will be there for the next few days. Sister Joan and Sister Kathleen visited Father yesterday. They were delighted to see Father sitting up in a recliner, very alert and inquiring about both the school and the parish. This is certainly a testimony to the power of prayer. Speaking of the power of prayer, Father said, "We are truly the Body of Christ." Father's spirits are great and he is receiving wonderful care from both the medical staff and his immediate family. Father thanks you for your prayers and cards and asks that you continue to pray and keep him in your thoughts with your cards and good wishes. Cards and correspondence can be dropped off or mailed to either the school or the parish office. They will them be delivered to Father Gibbons. Update - Posted Thursday, April 24, 2008 Wednesday, April 23, 2008, Father Gibbons underwent several hours of surgery at Moffitt Cancer Center. Father's family was with him as well as Bishop Lynch and Father Bob Morris. He is presently in intensive care and we expect he'll be in intensive care for a few more days. Thank you for your prayers and support. Please continue to pray for Father's healing and recovery. We will keep you informed as to Father's progress via both the school and the parish websites. |
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